The first letter is the most important and you must ensure that it will be special. There is no second chance to make a first impression. Send it using email forwarding or a courier service if a woman doesn't have email address - it will show the lady your genuine interest.Start the letter with "Hello" or "Hi". Addressing with the word "Dear" has an intimate nuance so you'd better keep it for the time when you know each other well. Introduce yourself and tell her where you found his or her address.
First thing, women or some men want to be appreciated for their personal qualities, not appearance. Second, in Russia for example; the word "beautiful" means something different than in the western world. Here every good looking woman is called "beautiful". In Russia you are beautiful only if you are a beauty queen or a photo model. If you are not - you are only attractive. So avoid quotes like “Boy are you beautiful and wow what a Babe”
Your letter must be interesting to read. Good humour is the best way to make reading fun but don't be a clown. Never make jokes about the girl's or mans appearance, his or her spelling, grammar, or in many cases his or her use of English, etc. Better to laugh at yourself than to laugh at him or her.
The necessary details to mention:
your age, weight, height; marital status, children, education, occupation, religion, smoking, drinking (very important!), personality, interests, hobbies and the things you love, as well as the place where you live. Don't make it a list; the letter must be alive and express your heart and soul rather than to be "correct". It must be rather a story than a questionnaire.
The optimum length of the letter is 1-2 pages. Keep it reasonably short but long enough to give a lady or gentleman all the essential information. You are not going to get responses if your letter consists of only 3-5 sentences. Hi my names John/Sue and want to get to know you so email me, hardly constitutes an appropriate introduction.
The most important principle in seeking a partner via the Internet: BE YOURSELF!!! If you’ve fallen out of the ugly tree, hitting every branch on the way down, tell him or her, you will be found out eventually, wasting his or her time and equally importantly, yours.
This is applicable to any search for a relationship, but in the case all men and women you must follow this rule as if it was inscribed on stone tablets handed down from Heaven.
Do not try to be somebody different than you are. Be intriguing and sophisticated; be your best - but YOUR best. For the gentlemen, “false” is what a girl can feel, and women have very good intuition. Any person is interesting in and of himself, and it's not necessary to add qualities you don't have. When you are yourself, you have a better chance to find your real soul mate. Honesty pays back - you won't have to act or apologize for the untruth you told when you meet each other in person. Stay honest to avoid attracting the wrong men or women, but give your qualities in a positive way. Be yourself, but show the best of yourself!
Your first letter must include the following information:
Your full name, Age, height, weight, Residence, Education, Occupation, Marital status, Personality, Interests and hobbies, One nice photo not more than 10-20Kb in size, Postal address, Email address
Do not make your first letter a never-ending story. One, maximum two pages is enough. Check your spelling and grammar before sending, better still, compose letters in a word processor, then copy and paste in the body of your messages.
Make your romance blossom
Remember that every girl would like to be special. She will appreciate the efforts you spend to win her heart. Sending a letter or a postcard every day or week can work wonders! Behave as if you are already good friends, and don't be shy to show your interest in her. Women like insistent men but not pains? Men like genuine responses.
Even if you received a negative response from a man or girl but really interested in him or her, ask him or her to let you stay his or her friend and keep in touch. Chances are, he or she'll change his or her mind if the current romance didn’t work out.
If you are browsing the Internet searching for information regarding a potential partner, about 99% of your results will be dating, matchmaking and introduction agencies. I bet you are not sure that they are 100% honest in supplying you with reliable information on the subject - otherwise what are you doing here? The various themes covering the availability of females has become so popular that there are even some web sites managing to make money offering "unbiased information" about them. Some even offer free of charge introductions, some are completely free but most do make their money from you.
Letter tips2
Be prolific: Write to as many women as possible. By writing many women you greatly increase your chances of success!!! The more attractive a woman, the more letters she will receive so when writing to these women it is especially important to write to as many as possible.
Do not place to much emphasis on the woman's photo: Remember this is just one amateur snapshot that she sent in to us. Take out your driver's license and look at your photo; is that really representative of how you look today? The point is that the woman in the photo may look quite different in real life, so don't be too easily discouraged from writing to some of the women whose photos may not look perfect.
Read the lady's bio information. This information is there for a reason, you will be wasting your time as well as the lady's by responding to a woman whom you know you will not be compatible with.
Address the letter properly: Believe it or not, the US Post Office is one of the most efficient of its kind in the world. Thus we have become a little spoiled when it comes to our mail. Therefore it is important that you do everything in your power to help ensure that your letter reaches its destination.
Keep records: When you receive the list of addresses, photocopy them and keep a back-up. Clip the address for the woman you wish to correspond with and affix it to the envelope (use glue stick or clear tape).
Return address: Write your return address on the envelope, and also include a few return address labels with your letter so the lady won't have a problem responding to you.
Multiple letters: It may be a good idea to send the letter in both typed and written form. This way if she has a problem reading your handwriting she can refer to the typed copy.
Make copies: It is important to make copies of the letters that you send to the women, especially if you are writing to many women at once. By doing this, when a lady responds to you, you can simply refresh your memory as to what you initially wrote her.
Include photo(s): Always include a photo(s) of yourself along with your letter. It is also a good idea to wrap the contents of your letter in plastic to help protect it from the elements.
Print neatly: When writing to the girls it is important to print clearly, and avoid the use of cursive English. Even though most of the women on our service have a working knowledge of the English language, it is difficult for them to read.
Some additional advice
We realize that this may be the first time you have ever considered meeting a woman by using a service such as ours. This section is intended to allow you to benefit from the experience of others. By interviewing numerous men and researching volumes of material, we have compiled a top-ten list of hints that will prove beneficial in your research for a foreign woman. Even if you are an old hand at this, it's never too late to learn something new.
Do Not Send Money!!! Just like anywhere, there are honest people and there are dishonest people. The point of your correspondence is to develop a special relationship with a foreign woman, not to purchase one. We want you to be aware that you may contact women who will ask you for money for one reason or another. If you are asked for money it should immediately set off alarms and you should proceed very cautiously. There are instances where there may be a valid reason to send money to someone with whom you have been corresponding for some time. In that instance it is recommended that you send it via wire (Western Union).
Do include a photo of yourself, and not just any photo. Take some time and put some thought into it. For example, if you are the outdoors type you may want to take it while hiking or biking. The point is to give the women the best possible representation of yourself. In order to keep the costs of the photos to a minimum, you should consider choosing two or three of your best photos and have colour copies made instead of developing a new picture for each reply.
Try including a little something extra to let her know she is special. This could consist of a pressed flower, or a picture of you as an infant or a toddler, or maybe a poem written in her native language. The idea is to try and distinguish your response from others.
Remember when writing your letter that this woman's native language is not English. That doesn't mean she will not be able to understand your letter, but by keeping it simple you will have a much better chance of successfully communicating with her. Try to avoid using four- or five- syllable words; instead of impressing her, you will probably just confuse her. Make sure you neatly print your letter as opposed to writing in cursive. If your handwriting is difficult to read, you may consider typing it.
Try to keep the initial letter fast-paced. You certainly don't want to be discussing things like marriage and what your children might look like in your first letter! You may want to tell her a little about yourself, where you were raised, and what schools you have attended. Write a little about your interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes. Basically, just write about things that you would normally talk about on a first date.
Make sure you ask her plenty of questions about herself in your first letter. People like to know that others are interested in them and their activities. By asking questions about her she will think that you are interested in her as a person and she will want to respond to you immediately.
You may find it useful to do some independent research on the country of origin of the woman you are interested in. Not only will it impress the woman, but it may save you from committing a gaffe. You must always remember that this woman was raised in a totally different culture than our own. Obviously, it is in your best interest to know as much as possible about that culture.
Should you get to the point that you want to visit the woman or women you are corresponding with, we strongly recommend that you consider a well respected Foreign Romance Tour Company. (lista available)Travelling abroad is very different and can be much more dangerous than domestic travel. With a Romance Tour all you have to worry about is meeting the women you are interested in, the Tour Company takes care of all the other details. Even if you are interested in only one woman it makes sense to go with a group simply for the support you will receive. You never know what it’s going to be like once you meet the woman in person. If it doesn’t work out and you are with a Tour Group, you will have many other options to meet other women. Of course we feel our Tours are the best in the industry, but check them out for yourself!
Should you get to the point of wanting to marry the woman you have been corresponding with, we recommend the services of a reputable attorney who specializes in immigration law. We have cursory information on immigration laws and various visa’s, however this information is intended to serve as an introduction only and should be supplemented with an attorney who specializes in this area.
The last and probably most important tip of all is be patient. Consider for a moment how long you have been searching for that perfect mate: ten, twenty, even thirty years? This is an important process and the results of the decision that you make will be far reaching and long lasting. Take the time to correspond with many different women before committing to that special one. One of the key features of our service is that we are continuously updating our service with new women, thus giving you new choices on an almost daily basis. This is probably one of the most important decisions that you will ever make, so please be patient, be thorough, and most of all, enjoy the process!
If you are in doubt of what to write or how to write contact us where you will recieve our full and immediate assistance.
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